ooooooh ok, I probably missed something as right now I seem to be spending my time on lj emptying my inbox... that post has been far more successful than I ever expected.

When i lived at my folks we had 3 dogs, a cat and 2 budgies... and there were six of us in the house! it was utter chaos!

out of curiosity, and I honestly don't mind if the answer is no... we're we doing the mutual adding or would you rather we didn't?